just some advice......for you....

hi there....i just wanted to give some advice to one of my friends who is facing quite a little bit of problem.....i thot that this might actually help you in some ways......

i think that whoever you are interested in now....do not be so pessimistic.....i mean you got all the qualities to have your own love also.....but the serious thing now is that you shld recognise whether you are really interested in him....if you are....then i suggest you keep your cool and start out as friends first......if you think that it is pure curious and infatuation.....dun ever let seep in this hole for too long......

the another thing is that even though your relationship may not be fruitful but you'll learn out of it......whether or not it is a "normal" relationship....its still going to be a learning trip for everyone......look at the friends around me and you are also learning thru it........nobody are so serious into a relationship that they actually have a fruitful result in mind.....ppl at our age needs to learn and this process maybe hurtful to one party......the important point is to enjoy the process in love and company of each other.....

i noe whatever i am telling you now maybe the 1001 times you have heard it...but it works for all the relationships.....if you are really in love...admit it....but that doesn't mean the you cannot be discreet.....if you think that he is not suitable for you.....then end the ties at the friend level...until you think that you are more suitable to carry on....dun be afraid of falling....learn how to fall gracefully and climb up again in dignity.....its not difficult.....no one can gurantee you that you willl not get hurt....but and the same time no one is guaranteeing that you will not enjoy.....

it's always no easy to take the first step....whether or not it is a BGR or BBR or GGR.....but learn how to cope with it...and you can have a beautiful life also.....

i'm not trying to encourage you in anyways....but i think your priority now is your O levels...which you shld be more concentrated in......you shld keep him at the back of your mind until you are ready to think abt solving it all over again....and always remember....if you think something is wrong....dun hesitate to say it out....dun be afraid....trust me.....

i think you'll get an idea what i really mean.....pls just concentrate on your studies first....the rest can come later....and i'll teach you how to solve them....all of us are learning also.....we do and we are learning how to cope it........dun think that you are alone cos you are not.....

i have confidence in you....the most important thing is you must have the confidence for yourself also........jia you......

tataz.....give me a call ok.....