well....really how gracious are we????

hello...i'm dropping by just to blog abt something i saw today.....i was with my grandma having lunch at a cafe in my neighbourhood....it was during lunch hour and so the place is crowded with ppl.....so as i was sitting down enjoying my fried rice with chicken cutlet and my grandma enjoying her curry chicken (she didn't like it at all)......i saw something very very....erm lets just say ungentlemen....

there is a table for 4 that is empty and no one is took it cos the ppl just finished their food and left...and so it empty....so there came by this old lady(around my grandma's age) walking towards the table and just as she wanted to put her bag down....this middle age man come walking and placed his butt so ever fast that the lady can hardly react...the poor lady tried to reasoned out with him that she really did want to sit but the guy just refuse to give up that seat to that poor lady.....the lady said that she has 3 ppl seating down for lunch and would really appreciate if she can have the seat even though that guy really did sit down first....but guess what...that uncle said....well i've got 3 more others joining him later...so look for a seat somewhere else........that lady had no choice but to hunt for another seat by which fortunately...she found one...rite at the table beside me....thank god....

this made me really think....that uncle...dun have that little sense of empathy or even that little gentlemen like in him to call himself a man......so what he sat first...so what he had 1 more person taking the table than the old lady......the old lady did walk all the way and when she wanted to sit down...you just happily place your god damn butt to the chair and claim the seat rightfully yours no matter how the lady reason...you just refuse to give up that seat.....haiz...i guess that wat the modern society taught the ppl....fend for yourself no matter what.....

but really is there such a need...sometimes...giving ppl a little leeway...or just giving up a little bit won't hurt...in fact it can even make a great day for another person....haiz....selfishnesss...i guess....thats what its called...

thats all...bye...

p.s. the old lady made a very very true comment at the end...'i hope he'll not enjoy his meal'.....yeah...god damn he won't!!!!!!!